If Your Ex Doesn't Want You 

Quite often after a break up you will ask your ex to give things another go only for them to say no. If you're reading this then this is probably the position you find yourself in.

If at first your ex turns you down you need to take it on the chin and remain confident. You don't want to take it the wrong way and turn it into an argument because that will only make things worse.

After a break up your ex may not know what it is that they want. Just because they say they don't want you is no reason to give up.

It's best to give your ex time to cool off as I discuss on the simple plan page. During this time your ex will have time to think about what exactly it is that they want and you will be able to as well.

Once this period has passed (2-4 weeks) it's then time to approach them and try and get them back and again, more there is more detail about this on the simple plan page.

There are a few different ways you can approach your ex in order to get them back, you may be successful, you may not. If after this period your ex is still saying that they aren't interested then it may be time to let them go.

While most relationships can be saved there are some that can't. If you're in the unfortunate position where your relationship cannot be saved then there's always a time when you need to walk away, see when to let go of your ex.

A few cases when your ex is less likely to want you are:

1. If your ex has genuinely moved on and is with someone else which is unlikely over such a short period of time. If they are with someone else it is likely a rebound relationship.

2. If you hurt your ex in the past such as cheating on them

3. If your ex is a total jerk and just wants to hook up with as many people as possible in which case you're better off without them anyway.

Even in the above situations it's still possible that you can get your ex back because every break up is different.