Is Your Boyfriend A Cheater?

It can drive women mad when they just can't work out what their boyfriend is doing when they're apart. It can be very upsetting if you believe your ex is cheating but you can't prove it.

If you suspect that your boyfriend is cheating then he may well be. After all there must be something wrong for you to suspect him in the first place, but then again it could be your own paranoia.

Here are some classic signs of a cheating man

Secret phone calls and texts - If your boyfriend is suddenly getting phone calls and is sneaking off to take them then something isn't right. If he previously had no problem with you hearing his conversations but has now started leaving the room it's even more cause for concern.

If you have suspicions about who's calling or texting your boyfriend then calmly ask who it is. If he starts being defensive then demand to know. If he still won't tell you then he obviously has something to hide.

However you need to make sure that you don't take it too far. You don't want to do this every time your boyfriend's phone goes off because then you will be being possessive.

Secret Internet sessions - If your boyfriend is staying up late on his computer then there may be something wrong, especially if he won't tell you what he's doing.

It's surprising how many men cheat on their girlfriends as a result of hanging around on dating sites or worse, sex sites.

If possible try and catch your boyfriend off guard, walk in on him unexpectedly. If he suddenly moves his screen or turns the computer off then he's obviously doing something he shouldn't.

Making an unusual effort - If your boyfriend has started making an unusual effort in his appearance and is going out with the "boys" a lot then there may be something to worry about.

Most men like to go out from time to time and this is perfectly normal but it can be something to be concerned about if your boyfriend suddenly starts going out more than he usually did.

More argumentative than usual - All couples argue but if your boyfriend is picking fights more often than usual then it's obvious there's something wrong with him.

This doesn't necessarily mean that he's cheating but if he's being snappy with you there must be a problem and cheating is one of the most common causes.

These are the main tell tale signs of a cheating boyfriend. There are others but they are all sub actions of the main four that I've just given you.