Don't Be Boring

A common reason for people breaking up is because the relationship becomes boring. When you're stuck in a boring relationship it can feel like every day is just a waste of time.

If your relationship ended because your ex said that either you or the relationship were boring you will need to make some changes to your lifestyle to get them back.

There are many different reasons why you could be classed as boring which I shall now discuss.

1. Not spending enough time with your partner's family - It can be quite awkward hanging around your partner's family, especially the parents but it's something you will probably need to do if you want your relationship to succeed.

Also when there's a family party or something similar it is always better to show your face. Your partner won't want to make excuses as to why you never show up to an event and this will lead them to think that you're boring and not worth staying with.

I realize that when you go to a party with your partner's family you're going to be stick in awkward conversations with distant relatives but for the sake of your relationship it's best to endure it.

2. Not getting involved with your partners friends - When someone gets a new partner they often tell their friends about it. This is especially the case with women.

Sooner or later the friends will want to meet this person that they've been hearing about so it would be best if you make an effort when you meet them. In an ideal world, your partner would probably like to still see their friends a lot with you joining them and that all of you could be one big happy friendship group.

While it would be impossible for this to be the case with every relationship you should do your best to get along with your partner's friends so that at least everything is amicable.

The last thing you want to do is put your partner in the position where they have to chose between you or their friends.

3. Stuck in a routine - This is the most common form of boringness in a relationship. Doing the same thing week in week out soon becomes boring and you need to make an effort to make sure your relationship doesn't go down that route.

A typical boring routine would be getting, going to work, coming home and then watching TV all night. Even if you and your partner only go out twice a week, it will certainly add some variety to the relationship.

You don't need to go anywhere expensive, just go to the cinema once a week and go our for a meal once a week. This will nicely break up those nights in front of the TV.

If your relationship has already ended due to the relationship being boring, it is your job to convince your ex that the relationship will be different if you get back together. Your ex isn't going to want to come back to the same relationship that they walked out on, they will want it to improve.

Once you have got them back you will need to make sure that you follow up on your promises to change because if you don't the relationship will end once and for all.